Question for other Catholics, please help!?

Hi. Do Catholic men follow the teaching of no premarital anymore? I am female, and have had zero luck finding a partner (even Catholic ones) who will accept no premarital . All men I've met thinks it's ridiculous. Is it just my luck, or is the no premarital teaching that we grew up with just a deranged view (that I should ignore) which nobody accepts? Catholics only- please tell me what you think, and what your experience is...thanks.